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NHS 111 – put the suicides on hold…?

The story this morning  ‘NHS 111 put suicide callers on hold until they hung up’ – sadly didn’t shock me. I’m almost immune to bad press by now.

January 2nd 2013 – the date of my nervous breakdown. Crying hysterically & running back & forth through the flat, I thought I was going crazy. Dan was terrified, he kept trying to calm me but nothing worked. After 20 minutes it became apparent that we didn’t know what to do. I needed some help, I was desperate.

Even though I had a strong urge to chuck myself out of a window, in typical ‘me’ fashion, I still decided that I didn’t want to bother the hospital. They were dealing with seriously ill people right? Instead Dan suggested that we ring NHS Direct and see what they advise. I still remember the call handler who answered. Ryan. Oh Ryan, I wonder what you’re doing now…? After asking basic data questions that seemed to take forever (Dob, address, job etc), he gave me the opportunity to talk.

Me: I think I’m losing my mind, or having a heart attack. Something is wrong. Please, I can’t breathe, I need help.
Ryan: And what do you normally do when you feel this way?
Me: What? I’ve never felt like this before. Oh God seriously I can’t breathe. I think I need to go to hospital.
Ryan: This doesn’t sound like something they’d be able to help you with.
Claire: But I think I’m going to die. Isn’t there anything a doctor could do? I want to jump out of the window. I need it to stop.
Ryan: I think your best option is to try and calm down.

After another 15 minutes on the phone, sobbing and begging for help, I realised that Ryan wasn’t going to send anyone. So I hung up and drank myself into sedation, (super healthy right)? I just needed ‘it’ to stop, & alcohol was the only thing I could think of.

I don’t blame Ryan, he was responding to the call based on the training that he’d been given. What does trouble me, looking back, was the lack of concern for my state of mind.

Lack of resources, lack of education and a lack of understanding. When will mental health be taken more seriously? Will pigs already be flying? Thank God for The Samaritans.

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Categories: Anxiety

4 replies

  1. Wow that is so scary. I’m pleased I had access to the crisis line at our local hospital. I only had that number by chance from a leaflet my gp gave me weeks earlier. They came straight to my house. I’m sorry you went through that, and it breaks my heart to hear it’s still happening to people now.
    I’m hanging by a thread myself at the moment, but I begin CBT again on Wednesday, do um focussing on that best that I can. I’m hiding away from the world today, pleased it’s my day off work

  2. Yes, if only we could switch of the ‘it’ it (!) would be so much better. It torments me and for some reason it’s be really bad the last few weeks. But, talking of the NHS, I needed to see a doctor last month and because I rarely leave the house asked for a visit – big mistake.

    The doctor phoned me and said, and I quote (:D) “are you dying? I will only come and see you if you are dying. Now, if you say you are then I will come BUT don’t lie to me”. I felt so much better after that phone call I can’t tell you…not! A sad indictment of our times I guess and a reflection on the state of mental health care at our surgery anyway. All the good GPs have retired :(.

    So I feel for your Claire and what you experienced, I hope it changes for the better one day.

  3. I think we often give them too much credit in other areas. When I phoned them regarding a mental health issue, they were pretty useless. But when I phoned them because my friend has passed out, they were useless as well. So it gives me some comfort that it’s not always that mental health is not taken seriously: they’re just universally bad at what they do.

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